The quicker you can pass on chores , the more responsibility they’ll have, and the less you’ll have to do! Make sure you are expecting great things from your children and this step will give them the sense of independence
preschoolers also love some individual time with adults.if we teach them on one on one basis the appropriate way they would love to get involve in some chores without any supervision .they also like rewards which don’t have to be huge at initial stage.Start off small. It’s easy for a little one to get overwhelmed when faced with a playroom or bedroom with toys all over the place.try using sticker chart that gives them an opportunity to build up for huge rewards..
below is the list of some chores which your preschoolers can do .just remember Your goal is not to have a little housekeeper, it’s to instill good habits now, so as your child gets older he’ll understand the importance of pitching in.
for preschoolers :
- Wiping windows with cloth and spray bottle filled with water
- Setting the table
- Clearing table
- Putting dishes in sink or dishwasher
- Sweeping small messes with hand broom
- Put away laundry in correct places
- Folding simple clothing items like pants..
- Sort laundry by family member (trust me they would love it )
- Bringing newspaper in from outside
- Putting books on bookshelf correctly
- Help to water plants
- Pulling weeds from garden
- Helping carry laundry basket
- Assisting adult in the kitchen with measuring, pouring and mixing
- Hanging up coat and hat
- Carrying small bags of groceries
- Assist in putting away groceries
5 – 7 years old kids :
- Folding their shirts and other clothing items — teach them how to do it, and don’t expect perfection
- Sweeping the floor or using vacuum cleaner
- Learn to wash dishes
- Straightening books on bookshelf
- Wiping table after a meal
- Making bed
- Putting items in car
- Picking up trash in car
- Picking out clothes and dressing without assistance
- Helping prepare their own lunch — sandwiches, simple side items
After each job is completed, give them some kind of reward …like stickers on the chart or beans or buttons in a jar that can be redeemed for a prize when full. Some parents like to offer an allowance which also is something to consider although young children don’t quite understand the concept of money yet. No matter how you choose to acknowledge your child’s hard work, make sure their is a lot of praise involved… hugs and kisses are worth millions to your little one.
Do your kids play electronic games and wondering whether the games have any effects on your children? Here are some of the pros of electronic games:Development of Motor SkillsResearch studies have shown that electronic games play a major role in helping your children to develop their motor skills. The studies have shown that the most effective games are those that make use of a joystick or stylus. Some of the motor skills developed here are hand-to-eye coordination skills and others.Critical ThinkingThere are some games that require your children to think critically in order to solve a number of puzzles. For ideal results you should go for educational games. If you can’t find educational games you should go for those that require your child to make a decision. Stress ReliefJust like adults, children suffer from stress. Research studies have shown that electronic games helps the children as stress buster. To help the children to get rid of stress even faster and effectively it’s wise that you play the games as a family.Tips To Remember As a ParentWhile electronic games have the above benefits, they also have their fair share of negatives. One of the negatives is that the games can make your child violent especially if your child plays violent games. To avoid this from happening you should be very strict on what your children play. As rule of thumb you should remove any game that requires the player to kill his/her opponent in order to progress to another level.Another negative of playing electronic games is that they put your child at the risk of developing childhood obesity. To avoid this you should discourage your children from staying indoors the entire day playing the games.The best way of going about it... is setting an activity timetable where your children participate in different activities. For example, you can ask them to play football one day , swimming on another day the and so on.
It is OK for children to see their parents get angry. Anger is a normal emotion. On the one hand, adult anger can be scary and overwhelming for kids. We are so much bigger, we have tremendous power over them, and they desperately need and love us. Yet on the other hand, acting like you are not angry when you really are is inauthentic and teaches children to falsify themselves -- not a good lesson. There is a difference, though, between what we feel and what we actually do. Being openly angry yet handling it with restraint, responsibility, and skill is a great model for children.Prevent angry encountersThis can help us anticipate and prevent angry encounters. For example, explain early on to your kids what is coming and what you want them to do. Be organized yourself. Choose your battles wisely and don't struggle over little things.Be credible in your parental power. Do not make threats you don't fulfill. For example, if your kids know that you won't tolerate ridiculous squabbling, they will be less likely to do it in the first place.Intervene early and decisively If you do not exceed the necessary threshold to get your children to act appropriately, your intervention will make little difference. Study the situation a moment before you react, and then be calm, clear, and sufficiently powerful. Avoid the crescendo by being effective early on.Restrain angry expressionAs much as you can, have reality be the consequence, not you. If you tell your daughter not to eat the brownie until after dinner, and she nibbles at it anyway, it's better for her to lose the brownie than get yelled at. Criticize the behavior, not the person.And don't go into rages. Raging at kids can become a very bad habit. It is very frightening to them, verges on emotional abuse, and undermines a parent's credibility and moral authority. Above all else, do not be violent. The dropping on the bed you describe definitely sounds 'over the top.'Imagine that you have an internal regulator which slows down your reactions. Imagine yourself in an angry situation and visualize handling it calmly and well.Deal with your stressYou speak of all the pressure you are under. Don't take it out on the kids. It's not their fault that you are stressed. Do things to lower your stress level overall. Work things out better with your spouse. Talk with friends. Understand yourselfExamine yourself and how you typically deal with anger. By understanding your anger you can insert self-control into processes that are currently unconscious and automatic, and based on old learning that doesn't apply to your current situation. Look into your underlying motivations. Sure we want to be less angry, but sometimes an unwanted condition has hidden rewards to it that make it hard to change. What might be the rewards for you in your angry style? Does anger give you a sense of power? Is it a familiar ritual that enables you to blow off tension? Does it give you a feeling of being back in control of situations that you have let get out of hand?Sometimes we have a backlog of anger from other situations that get transferred to our kids. Kids are lightning rods for anger. In particular, anger from our own childhood (our anger as well as that of our parents) can be reactivated by our kids. The familiar situation of an angry parent calls up that old anger, except this time we are the parents. It can feel sometimes like we are 'channeling' mom or dad, and doing things to our own kids that cut us to pieces when our parents did them to us. Unresolved anger in children can erupt in damaging and inappropriate behavior. I Am So Angry, I Could Scream ...teaches children techniques for releasing anger in healthy ways and methods for preventing anger-inducing situations. Young readers are shown how to keep an anger chart to identify the causes of their angry feelings and how to find positive ways to work through them.
Reading skills are essential to learning all other subjects taught in school. The better the reading skills children have and the earlier they have them determines how rapidly and how well they will achieve in school.
Parents Are The First and Best Teacher : The first teacher any child has is his or her parent. Children develop language skills by listening to and mimicking their parents. When children are born they have the capability of producing any sound made in any language spoken in the world. During the early years, they hear the sounds and make the sounds that make-up the language spoken in their culture. The more time parents spend talking with their child the richer the language development of that child. As children begin to say their first words, feedback from those around them help them to learn the meaning of the words and begin to use them to get things they want and to please those around them. They gradually learn how to put them together to form phrases and later sentences. Thus, they gradually learn how to speak and listen with fluency and understanding. The process of reading and writing is simply “talking on paper.” The only difference is that written symbols are used rather than sounds. The child must learn the sounds letters and combination of letters make and how they string together to form words. That is what is called decoding. Once a child learns to decode they can understand communication through written language based on the skills developed through their development of oral language.
Reading to Younger Children :Just as parents should spend time each day talking to and with their young child, they should also spend some time each day reading to their young child. This spurs interest in books and as children become toddlers and preschoolers who want to imitate their parents doing all kinds of things, reading will become one of them. Parents need to read in a manner that generates enthusiasm and curiosity. They also need to talk with the child about what they are reading to promote in depth comprehension. Reading time should be fun as well as a time for bonding and learning. The Read-Aloud Handbook has been around for decades and is a must for parents who want to read to their kids. For suggestions on what to read to children at various age levels we suggest What to Read When: The Books and Stories to Read with Your Child–and All the Best Times to Read Them.
Reading With Older Children:Once your child can read, reading time shifts to listening to the child read and taking turns reading with them. Parents should continue to talk with the child about what is being read. If you want more suggestions on how to help your child improve reading comprehension we suggest 7 Keys to Comprehension: How to Help Your Kids Read It and Get It!.